” STOP YELLING, START CONNECTING”
Most people thinks that punishment helps a child to do right thing. So if we aren’t punishing our children, they’ll grow up doing the wrong thing. That’s a wrong view.
Punishment
- focuses a child on the consequences which he is suffering
- makes a child to feel like a bad person
- fosters dishonesty
- consider it unfair
- makes kids look out only for themselves and blame others
Children who are punished exhibit more bad behavior, not less.
Solution is
- Loving Guidance
- Connection
- Modeling
- A whole lots of LOVE